Monday, April 7, 2008

With Open Arms

We awoke this morning at 3 AM wide awake. Both of us got up and looked out the window at a sleepy Kaluga. Thankfully, we eventually did get tired enough to sleep again until 7 AM, so we are now on Russian Time.

Our driver Vlad, translator Nadya and Dr. Oleg met us in the lobby of our hotel at 10 AM. Shortly afterwards, we met Margarit in front of the hotel and then walked next door to the offices for the Ministry Of Education. We met the official who had a copy of our dossier on file. There she greeted us, gave us permission to see our referral, take pictures, and ask any questions we wanted to in order to make a decision about the child. She then gave us a photo, and it was of an adorable little boy!

From there we went directly to the orphanage, which had several small children playing outside with thier caregivers, all bundled up in winter clothes. Once inside we were taken to the chief Doctor's office to meet and discuss how the rest of our visit would go.

The chief doctor of the orphanage led us to the room where our boy sleeps and plays with other children his age. When he saw us, he immdiately came over to us and smiled and gave me a big hug with arms wide open. He is not shy and smiles easily! While in that room, Dr. Oleg took a few measurements, height, weight etc. We got to see his crib and take photos.

Then we were led down the hallway to the music room for further examinations, conversation and play time. The social worker also met us in the music room to observe the examination and our time together. We spent at least an hour in that room with the precious boy. He has a great giggle, which Jason got out of him by playing airplane and teasing him a bit. He liked the toys we brought, and gave a nice hug to the blue bunny from our niece, who reminded me last Friday not to foget to bring to Russia. Our boy was getting very tired and sleepy so his caregiver came to take him for a nap.

From the doctors initial findings, he feels that this child is very healthy, no red flags or things to really worry about other than the standard stuff you worry about with all kids. So we are feeling very positive about our first visit so far.

After that, we went back down to the office of the Chief doctor where our Dr. Oleg asked more questions, and we got to ask a few of our own. These people are very kind, very intelligent, and care very deeply for the children at the orphanage. Just before we left, they took us to the room with the children from our referrals group and showed us how they all go on the potty. Each little one has thier own potty, and they all sit there until they are done doing thier business. You could really see the kids' different personalities. Some were rambunctious, some calm, some were scooting around on the potty trying to look into the wastebasket, it was quite comical! Imagine taking care of 10 little kids in one bathroom on potty chairs and keep them there! One is difficult enough, Im sure!

We left the Orphanage and came back to the hotel to eat at the cafe with Dr. Oleg. The food again, was very good. We had chicken noodle soup, beef patty with mushrooms and sour cream sauce and mashed potatos.

Here we are resting now in our hotel room, and waiting for Nadya and Vlad to come back to pick us up so we can have another visit with our referral this afternoon.

Thank you all for your prayers! Everything is going great!

13 comments:

Anonymous said...

I am so happy that things are turning out so well for you both! I hope pictures will be up and running when you get time! I am sure you are wore out! I am so happy he was greeting you with open arms!!
Lots of love!
xoxox
Ging

Anonymous said...

We are so happy for you. We can't believe you are getting to spend so much time with your referral, God is great!
Enjoy this time.
Hugs,
John and Becky

Tiger & Kar said...

Yay! I've been praying for you and this first meeting. This little boy sounds precious! I can't wait to read more updates as the week goes on. Congratulations!
Karyn

Anonymous said...

Woohoo! I was so excited to read your blog this morning. GOD IS GOOD! I am so thrilled that your first meeting was so warm and loving. I will be looking forward to more updates.
God bless,
Tara

Anonymous said...

We are so excited your trip has gone so well! PTL! You survived the flight! Did he like the blanket? God is soooo Good. What a blessed little boy!!! We're anxious for more pictures! God bless - Larry & Linda

ana said...

He sounds wonderful! Congratulations! Enjoy your time with him this week. Looking forward to hearing more about him.

Michelle R said...

WAHOOOOOO.
That is such wonderful news!!! Tears in my eyes all over again. Gosh I am such a mess whenever someone travels. I am reading about life books- so here is my tip: take pictures of everything: food you eat, all the stores and homes and everything about the city so he can know what it was like on this day- it will change so much. And see if you can get lots of photos from inside the orphange. It may answer some questions later. I am so very thrilled for all of you.
God Bless You as you continue on your journey!!!!
Michelle

Susan said...

I knew it would work out okay in the end and it sounds you have been blessed with a wonderful son. Congratulations!

Dilworth Family said...

I am so glad that today was a good day for the three of you!! I hope Dr. T took good care of you and that he was helpful to you in your decision making! Congrats!! Emily Dilworth

Anonymous said...

Thinking of you both and glad you arrived safe. Many back home are praying for you.

love,
Jake and Amy Schechinger
Jessica, Abby, Jenny, Andy and Julia.

Nancy said...

I'm glad your first visit went well!

the Horvaths said...

Wow, how very exciting. Thanks for sharing the good news. Hoping you get to spend lots more fun times with your little guy this week. Have great time.

Anonymous said...

WE're here at Larry & Linda's for the cottage meeting. Everyone is soooo excited for you. Pastor Steve did a good job of relaying the info on your "adventure". We are praying for you & can't wait to hear all about our new great grandson. God bless you & we love you - Grandpa & Grandma Troll